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English discussion room => What is Love all About => Subiect creat de: kiddoe din 26 August, 2004, 10:34:50 p.m.

Titlu: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: kiddoe din 26 August, 2004, 10:34:50 p.m.

i have been wondering lately if there was such thing as a soulmate. do most people think that there is this one special person out there that we have to find throughout our lifetime... or do we just fall in love with random people we meet?
 
exista numai una persoana care trebuim sa gasim in viata.. sau ne indregostim de persoane pe care le intilnim la intimplare? ( i dont write well in romanian.. sorry)  :(

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Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: khalia din 26 August, 2004, 10:45:44 p.m.

   Well, i really think that there is more than one person in our lives that we can consider our souolmate....

Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: Glacius din 28 Februarie, 2005, 03:29:16 p.m.

I don`t think there is such a thing;soulmate...
He/She doesn`t exist...it`s just a fairytale..for those too happy to think clear...

Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: shrekutza din 23 Septembrie, 2007, 05:47:19 p.m.

I do believe in soulmates:) I need to believe that:) But I think that a random love can evolve and that person might become a soulmate:)

Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: lumycriss din 06 Noiembrie, 2008, 12:47:12 a.m.

"Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told?...
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a SOULMATE for everyone?"  :(
                      (Natasha Bedingfield - Soulmate)

I don't really know what to say... There was a time when I truly believed "there's a soulmate for everyone"... and especially ONE for me... Now I think that this is just a very sweet fairy tale, made for children's spirits, to dream about their Prince Charming or Sleeping Beauty when they are little and wish hardly to get elder. It is later when they find out that tales... are just tales... They do not come true in real life... Or maybe just few times, to very few people...

The Soulmate.... There may be in your life at differrent times persons who can play this part... But they cannot forever... The Soulmate is, in my vision, that person who would understand you, love you, forgive you every mistake and make you not feel as a fool, make you fly and wish to spend every moment of your life with her... But... Is there such person on Earth? If yes, show her to me, please!

Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: Iosif din 06 Noiembrie, 2008, 11:16:50 a.m.

Girl 1: I had a girl I was happy with, at that moment I thought that she is THE ONE for me!
Girl 2: I woke up one day so deep in love that I was sure that she is the love of my life, I loved here for years, even though she didn`t really cared about me...
Girl 3: She is smart, definitely the BEST girl I had 'till now (that moment). Very nice, I am happy!
Girl 4: She came to me and asked for a kiss. I was somewhat embarrassed, did not know what to do, that was so fast an unexpected. OK, nice, I like when a girl knows what she wants! Let`s try it!
Girl 5: She is not what I am looking for, I am 100% sure! A few days later we met again, I didn`t had enough time to stay with her so I told her that we'll met again a few days later. I haven`t call her, I didn`t had the mood for flirting. Sometimes it is good to be distant, you might have even better results! She called me claiming her "date". I met her again, a few minutes later I was holding her in my arm and the "not possible (she's not the one)" happened. I kissed her and we are still together, after almost two years from that moment.

I did not had A LOT of girls, but I was dreaming about many. They all were my "soulmates" in their moments. My opinion is that we have some sort of soul-mate-for-the-moment, and that`s it. Ther's no mate of the life or love of the life. Nothing is for good and nothing is granted! Live the moment and search the feeling. Forget about the rest.
If you read my Girl 5 story you'll see  that when I started I was sooo damn sure that she's far away from what I want, but I gave her a chance. Maybe we all should do that from time to time.
Don`t go for "soulmates", go instead for friends and fun, the rest will follow. You'll see! Never ever loose your trust.

Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: lumycriss din 06 Noiembrie, 2008, 01:02:45 p.m.

You are so right, Joey, that was my point too. In fact, "Soulmates" can only be "Soulmates-for-the-moment", not "soulmates-for-ever". But... the most important thing in life is... always take the chance. And give a chance to every common boy or girl you meet to prove you they could be THE ONE for a while. After all, this is the beauty of life, loving someone with all your heart, soul and body, even if for a short while, which sometimes, can last as long as life ;)

Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: Iosif din 07 Noiembrie, 2008, 10:02:33 a.m.

Citat

they could be THE ONE for a while

If you`re goin` to put it that way, they'll run away! :)

If I tell to my girl "You know, I could live without you, there are so many other chicks! ..and you know, you could also live without me! Maybe you could even find someone better! Maybe we both could!"... well, if I do that I'm out of the relationship. People are not ready to admit such a thing. If you put that much ration in emotion... dunno what you could do with the result. :)

Titlu: Re: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: lumycriss din 07 Noiembrie, 2008, 03:26:03 p.m.

Of course, what we discuss here is only theory, I think that after all there is no such thing as "rational love", as you put it, 'cause when you're in love it seems that all the world is yours and that you could do whatever you want to, including picking up the moon in the sky and offerring it to your lover. And I don't think that there is such person who would even think that she could live without her match, when they're together and everything is ok. People only think rationally about love when "love is gone" and over. It is enough to fall again into this sweet and deep feeling, if only for a moment, for irrationality to reinstall into our souls. Remember, please, that "love has its own ration that ration doesn't know." ;)

PS: J., your blond girl looks very sweet... and loveable ::)

Titlu: Răspuns: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: geminus din 30 Decembrie, 2008, 11:17:49 p.m.

I still believe in them...because sepparrettly we are  angels with just  :angel:one wing

Titlu: Răspuns: soulmates.. do u believe in them?
Scris de: andutzyk18 din 17 Februarie, 2010, 06:09:49 p.m.

in  our lives we meet a lot of people...
in almoust any relationship we think that he/she is the one,our soulmate..but...the way that we must pass in our live is long..we can be lucky and find our soulmate,or we can just hope that the person next to us is the one..
soulmates exist,you just have to find the right person,the person that can read your mind,that knows how you feel just by looking at you,the person that loves you the way you are,not the way you look,the way you dress,talk,if you have money or not.
if we dont believe in soulmates,how can we hope to a better life,to peace or happiness?
when you meet your soulmate,your heart and mind just know it.
and to answear to your question:YES I do believe in soulmates.